Just inform about your decision which has made for your baby. you must tell your baby that she will be joined by a babysitter with whom they will be spending a lot of time.
Children must be provided the feeling that their opinion also matters as if you don't involve them then they will take that in the wrong way because you must involve them in that decision.
You must explain the full reason, why you are making that decision so that they will feel that they are also deciding along with you.
Children might feel insecure in the beginning because it takes time but tells them that you will be always available for them and they can contact you so that your kid can reach you anytime
Just tell them that it is your responsibility to take care of the home as well and the babysitter will be there to take good care but without knowing everything about the house and hence, the children will have to guide them as and when needed.
Give some responsibilities to them so that they can carry out as well for the babysitter like teaching them when the mail gets delivered, when the dishes are done, etc.
Tell your kids that they can approach you about anything so that they do not feel the need to hide anything if they feel uncomfortable.
Sit with your kids down and find out from them what they think of the new babysitter and take notes.
• Aware your kids of the arrival earlier
This will ensure your kids get acquainted with the new babysitter
• Involve your kid
Ask them in which way they are more comfortable with the babysitter.
•Initiate some activities
You know everything about your child so tell the babysitter about there wants so that they will get affection.
• Make sure your child expects the right thing
Tell them what to expect from this new person and what not to.
• Make them aware of the safety precautions
Children will often give attention when calmly explained about potential safety than potential dangers. Minimize the curiosity in them so that they won't fall prone to such dangers.
• Thorough your child with the rules that you make
Set some limits and rules and won't allow them to cross and make this aware of the babysitter also.
• Offer assurance to your kids
This will increase the trustworthiness of your child
• Saying Goodbye
Some parents wait until their child gets engaged with the baby sitter Nd then sneak out the door but just tell your child goodbye with a quick hug and a kiss, assure your child that you’ll be back soon, and then head out the door.
This will also show your child that you are concerned about them and trust the babysitter and that you’re comfortable with the situation.
Allow your child to say anything freely with you about the happenings of the day. So, commit to suffering for a few minutes to set a precedent that will pay off in the future.
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